It’s easy to think that a great sex buddy really just has to look good. It’s easy for a typical guy to think this way. After all, most guys would like to have sex with good-looking women. There’s no shame in that game. There’s nothing wrong with that type of thinking. However if you like to increase the likelihood of your success in developing a perfect sex buddy you need to look beyond the obvious. You need to look beyond your particular interests and look at the big picture if you want to be successful on findfuckfriends.
Most people think that having a sex buddy is just all about the sex. It’s no surprise then, considering this prevalent thinking, that most friends with benefits type of relationships don’t pan out. Somehow, some way they all fall apart. The reason for this should be obvious. It’s all about the physical relationship. Unfortunately, emotions always get in the way and it tends to complicate things, and all of a sudden, things get weird. Once things get weird, things get awkward. All of a sudden you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around this person.
The saddest part about this whole situation is that you brought it all on yourself. You made what would otherwise have been a great, platonic friendship into something awkward, burdensome and ultimately something you can’t live with. If you’re looking for any kind of factor that would make somebody a great sex buddy, it is this: that person wasn’t a friend before. In other words, you’ve set out from day one to agree with this person that you would develop a friendship but there is an open door regarding a physical dimension to that friendship. This is the kind of physical friendship that survives the test of time.
Make no mistake about it, even if you’re the most macho guy, emotions will always play a role in your physical relationships. You can try to deny this. You can try to think that you’re the exception, but chances are you are probably the exception that proves the rule. The reality is that there is really no hard and fast wall or boundary between emotions and physicality. By understanding this then you would be able to make the proper selection decisions when it comes to developing friends that may later on turn into friends with benefits.